Greetings, Parting, Thanking and Apologizing

3.1 mengidentifikasi fungsi sosial, struktur teks, dan unsur kebahasaan teks interaksi interpersonal lisan dan tulis yang melibatkan tindakan menyapa, berpamitan, mengucapkan terimakasih, dan meminta maaf, serta menanggapinya, sesuai dengan konteks penggunaannya.

• Mengidentifikasi ungkapan greetings dan responnya
• Menggunakan ungkapan greetings dalam kalimat
• Mengidentifikasi ungkapan leave taking(parting) dan responnya
• Menggunakan ungkapan leave taking dalam kalimat
• Mengidentifikasi ungkapan thanking dan responnya
• Menggunakan ungkapan thanking dalam kalimat
• Mengidentifikasi ungkapan apologizing dan responnya
• Menggunakan ungkapan apologizing dalam kalimat

Activity 1. Read this story

Story of Herald

Activity 2. After reading the story, in your group, answer the following questions:

• What did Herald's mother say when Herald left home?
• What did Herald say when he got into the classroom?
• Why did Herald apologize to the teacher?
• What did he say to apologize?
• What did he ask from Lala?
• What should Herald say after Lala gave him the pen?
• What did Mr. Ramli say before leaving the class?

Important Lessons!

What should you when you meet someone?

Formal and polite:
Good morning.
Good afternoon.
Good evening.
How are you?
How do you do?

Informal:
Hi!
Hello!
Hey!
How is it going?
How's life?

Response 
Morning too
Hi
Hello
I'm fine
How do you do

What should you say to take a leave?
See you later
Good bye
Good night
bye
I'll see you then
Nice talking to you.
We should hang out again.
I am sorry, I gotta go now.

Response 
See you too
Bye
See you then

What should you say to thank someone(expressing gratitude)?
I'd like to thank you for ......
Thank you so much
I really appreciate it
That's very nice. Thanks
Thanks.

Response 
That's alright 
Don't mention it
My pleasure
No problem

What should you say to apologize?
I apologize for...
My apology for....
I am sorry for...
Forgive me

Response 
That's alright 
It's okay, but don't do it again
No problem

Worksheet

Complete the following dialog with correct expressions:

1. Cinthya : Hi, Ra. How are you?

    Ira         : ...... Where are you going?

    Cinthya : I am going to go to the library. Do you want to join?
    Ira         : ........  I have to see Mr. Faizal now.

2. Mr. Faizal  : Well, it was nice talking to you. But I have to go now.

    Mr. Wahyu : Me too. We should go out and have lunch together next time.

    Mr. Faizal  : Yeah sounds great. ............

    Mr. Wahyu : See you too.

3. Mr. Faizal : Please tell Ira to come to my room?

    Chintya     : Yes, Sir.

    Mr. Faizal : ........

    Chintya     : My pleasure, sir.

4. Ira             : ............... I forgot to bring my homework.

    Mr. Faizal : Well then. But, you should bring it tomorrow.

    Cinthya     : Yes, sir. I'm really thankful for giving me another chance.

    Mr. Faizal : ...............

DIRECT AND INDIRECT SPEECH

Pak Pesut said, “I’m not going with you!” = Present Continuous Tense

·       Pak Pesut said that he was not going with them. = Past Continuous Tense

The difference between those two sentences is the way they are conveyed,

• by repeating the exact words spoken is called direct speech as in the first sentence
• by reporting the words spoken is called indirect or reported speech as in the second sentence

Examples:

·       “I will stay here,” said Pak Pesut.  (Direct Speech)

·       Pak Pesut said that he would not stay there. (Indirect Speech)

·       Pak Pesut told the villagers that “I have enough rice for my family.” (Direct Speech)

·       Pak Pesut told the villagers that he had enough rice for his family. (Indirect Speech)

Direct & Indirect Speech terdiri dari 3 jenis yaitu :

I.         Statement (pernyataan)

II.      Command (perintah)

III.   Question (pertanyaan)

Perubahan-perubahan yang perlu dari Direct ke Indirect Speech :

1.       To be & Auxiliary Verbs

Direct	Indirect
Am/is/are	Was/were
Shall/will	Should/would
Can	Could
May	Might
Must/ought to/has to/have to	Had to
Was/were	Had been
Must not	Was’t to/mustn’t
Need not	Didn’t have to

2.       Adverb of Time & Place (keterangan waktu & tempat)

Direct	Indirect
Now	Then
Tomorrow	The following day
Next week	The following week
Tonight	That night
Today	That day
Yesterday	The day before
Last night	The night before
Here	There
This	That
These	Those

3.       Tenses

Direct	Indirect
Simple present	Simple past
Simple past/present perfect	Past perfect
Present continuous	Past continuous
Simple future	Past future

I.         STATEMENT

Dalam Indirect Statement kita menggunakan kata that (bahwa) sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar (introduce phrase) dan kata-kata yang dilaporkan (reported words). Kalimat-kalimat pengantar dalam indirect statement ialah :

He said

He said to me                    that + reported words

He told me

e.g  - Mary told her friends “I have been to Bali twice.”

- Mary told her friends that she had been to Bali twice.

-   Father said “I am going out of town tomorrow”

-   Father said that he was going out of town the following day.

 II.      COMMAND

Command dibagi dalam 2 (dua) bagian yaitu :

1.      Positive Command

Dalam perintah positif kita tambahkan to di depan kalimat perintahnya, sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar dan perintah yang dilaporkan. Kalimat-kalimat pengantar dalam jenis ini ialah :

to + infinitive

He asked me

He told me

e.g   - He asked me “Open your book!”

- He asked me to open my book.

-  Mary told me “Stop talking to Jane!”

-  Mary told me to stop talking to Jane.

2.      Negative Command

Dalam  perintah negatif kita tambahkan not to di depan perintah yang dilaporkan.

e.g            - Mary told John “Don’t wait for me!”

          - Mary told John not to wait for her.

III.   QUESTION

Bila pertanyaan langsung (direct question) menggunakan kata-kata tanya seperti: Where, When, Why, What, Who, How, dll, maka kata-kata tersebut digunakan sebagai penghubung dalam reported Speech. Pertanyaan yang dilaporkan berubaha menjadi bentuk positif. Kalimat pengantarnya ialah :

He asked me where/When etc.  

e.g  - The man asked me : “Where do you live ?”

- The man asked me where I lived.

-  John asked Mary : “Why do you get angry with me ?”

-  John asked Mary why she got angry with him.

Bila pertanyaan langsung tidak menggunakan kata-kata tanya, dan hanya merupakan pertanyaan dalam bentuk “Yes & No Question”, maka kita menggunakan kata-kata if, whether (jika, apakah) sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar dan pertanyaan yang dilaporkan.

e.g       - The boy asked John : “Does Mary live near here?”

- The boy asked John if Mary lived near there.

Expressions Of Making, Accepting, And Declining An Invitation

Sometimes, we have a situation and have to also invite some of friends to come. There are many situations that probably happened in our daily life, such as meeting, birthday party, graduation party etc. of course, we have to make an invitation for our guests. There will be two answers for them who are invited by us, they may come or accept the invitation and they may not come or decline the invitation. The situation will be divided into formal and informal. There is differences expression that  is  use in the different context of situation.

Expression to make, accept or decline in vitiation in formal situation.

Making in vitiation

·         Would you like to…?
·         I would very happy if…?
·         We would be delighted if you…?
·         Would you care to..?
·         We would be pleased if you could…?
·         Would you care to…?

Accepting invitation

·         That’s very kind of you
·         We’d like very much to….
·         What a delightful idea
·         With the greatest pleasure
·         Thank you very much for inviting me
·         It’s delightful to….

Declining invitation

·         I’m very sorry, I don’t
·         Think I can.
·         I’d like to, but ….
·         I’m afraid I’ve
·         Already promised….
·         Thank you for asking me, but ….
·         Unfortunately  , I can’t….

Expression to make, accept or decline in vitiation informal situation

Making invitation

·         Why don’t you come to…
·         Like to come to …
·         Come and …
·         Shall we come to …
·         You must come to …

Accepting invitation

·         I would/will …
·         That would be very nice
·         OK,I will be there !
·         I’d like love to come.
·         All right.
·         Sure, I am coming

Declining invitation

·         Sort, I can’t.
·         I’d love to, but …
·         I don’t think I can.
·         In wish I could, but …
·         Sorry, I am very busy
·         Sorry, may be next time
·         Thank you, but I can’t
·         Sorry, I don’t think I
·         Can’t make it
·         I’m so sorry I can make it

Expressing Happiness

1.The Definition of Happiness Expression: 

Happiness expression is an expression that is used to show that someone or people are glad or have excited feelings.

What is happiness?

-It is important to first understand that the term “happiness” refers to the emotion, mood, and state of happiness; however researchers generally study the more enduring “state”.

-Expression happiness is used to express happiness feelings when we are successful to do something.

Example:

I’m happy to hear that

I’m glad you think so

That would be great

That sounds nice

Fantastic

What a wonderful day

It’s the most beautiful place I’ve ever seen.

I love it

I like it very much

Terrific!

Hooray!

Yippee!

What a great idea!

It sounds like fun.

It is good news.

You really make me happy.

Well done.

Congratulations!

I’m satisfied with ….

Responses:

I’d love too

You are right

I think so

I do, too

TASK FOR THIS LESSON

Text 1

Hilal   : Hi, Najmi! Haven’t seen you for a long time. How is it going?

Najmi : Oh, hi Hilal….. It’s great, thanks. How is everything with you?

Hilal   : Well, I’m fine. As a matter of fact, I was promoted as a manager.

Najmi : Wow, that’s really great. I’m glad to hear that. I’m sure you will have a good career.

Hilal   : Thank you. And how about you? I’ve heard you are a secretary now.

Najmi : Yes, you’re right. That’s what I want since I was young.

Answer the following questions based on the dialog above.

1.Who are involved in the dialogue above?

2.What is the relationship between Hilal and Najmi?

3.Where does the conversation take place?

4.Who works as a secretary?

5.What does Najmi say to express her happiness?

Text 2

Najmi : Have you ever heard that Icha and Doni are getting married?

Hilal   : Oh, really? What a surprise. I’m very pleased to hear that. When is the wedding?

Najmi : Next week. Will you come to their wedding party.

Hilal   : Of course. How about you?

Najmi : I’ll go there with my husband. Well, if you want we can go there together.

Hilal   : All right. Pick me up at 1.

Answer the following questions.

1.Who are involved in the dialogue above?

2.What is the relationship between Nico and Olga?

3.Where does the conversation take place?

4.When will the wedding party?

5.Who will come to the wedding party?

Apa Bahasa Inggrisnya Ge-er?? (Slang dalam Bahasa Indonesia)

"Cuekin aja lagi"       "Don’t let it bother you", "Don’t think about it"

Ngedumel                 Whining, complaining

Nirlaba >                    Non-profit

Mau, harus >             Slang-"wanna," "gotta"

Kata –kata mutiara > Proverbs

Kesemutan >             (leg,arm) fell asleep

Kram >                       Cramp

Pikiran kosong >       "My mind went blank"

Urakan >                    Rowdy/unkempt

Norak >                      Tacky/in bad taste

Ge-er >                       Big-headed/egotistical

Mejeng >                    "See and be seen,"/pose

Gaul >                         Very social/ social butterfly

Kuper >                      Unsocialized/introverted

Mengerling >             Wink/flirt

Melirik >                     Stare/flirt

Rumit/bingung >       Confound

Tahi lalat >                 Mole/birthmark

Plin-plan >                 Wishy-washy

Telur setengah matang/matang > Soft-boiled/hard-boiled egg

Bermulut manis >     Lip service, sweet-talk

Amburadul >             Chaotic, disorganized

Selangit;berbunga-bunga > "Top of the world"

Leyehan >                  Lay down

Mulet >                       Stretch

Latah >                       Parroting;copycat

Pemimpi, Pengelamun > "Head in the clouds," dreamer

Yang lain >                 The others, another

Salam >                      Greetings

Tunggu sebentar >   "Hold on"

(Bingung) >               "Hang on, are you telling me..?"

Alat musik tiup >       Wind instruments

Kena batunya >         You had it coming

Lari seperti dikejar setan > Run as if chased by a ghost

Hanyut >                    Drowning

Sunatan >                  Circumcision

Sensasi >                   Sensation, sensational

Muntah/muak >         Fed up

Aduh amit-amit >      "God forbid"

Dukun bola >             Dukun-shaman, Dukun bola-like a mascot

Gotong royong >      Cooperative

Angon sapi >             Cowboy

Cemburu buta >        Jealous rage

Patah hati >               Broken heart

Gagu >                       Mute

Kutilan >                    Wart

Mencurigakan >        Slang-"sketchy"

Tidak begitu, ngga juga > "Not so much"

Buyar >                      Lapse (in concentration

Pakem >                     Responsive

Bersin >                     To sneeze

Hidung meler >         Runny nose

Pedagang kaki lima > Street vendors

Pedagang asongan > Peddler

Bagus, hebat >          Great!

Bodoh >                     Moron, imbecile (insults)

Tidak apa-apa >        No problem, no big deal-"no biggy"

Dikitik-kitik >             To be tickled

Gosong >                   Burnt

Kasih saran ya >       Please give me advice, okay?

Sok tahu >                 Smart aleck, Mr.Know-it-All

Uleg-uleg >                Pestle

Melotot >                    Bug-eyed

Jebol >                       Collapse

Penjebolan hukum kolonial > The end of colonial laws

Puisi >                        Poem

Pantun >                    Poem, verse

Peribahasa >             Proverb: "The longest journey begins with a single step."

Nongkrong >             To sit around doing nothing

Saya lagi nggak mood >

Ngomong sama kamu > I do not feel like talking to you right now

Jangan sok puitis deh kamu > Hey you, cut the silly nonsense

Ngos-ngosan >         Out of breath

Ekonomi ngos-ngosan > Economic slump

Tabu >                        Taboo

BS-Bayar sendiri-sendiri > To go dutch (everyone pays for their own meal)

Kantong kempes/tongpes > Flat broke

Minta maaf atas kesalahan yang > Please forgive me for making a big/

Lumayan fatal >        near fatal mistake

Sinting >                    A crazy, nutty person

Cinta buta >               Love is blind

Terapi >                      Therapy

Serak-serak basah > Throaty, husky voice

Gombal-rayuan gombal > Baloney

Genit >                       Flirtatious

Sok >                          Arrogance

Jangan kapok main ke sini, yach? > Please come visit again

Etika muslimah berpakaian > Muslim women’s dress norms

Nglilir >                      To stir from sleep

Ngiler >                      To drool or want something badly(drool over something)

Cepek >                      100 in Chinese (in Indonesia)

Kekasih gelap >        Secret lover

Mengecil >                 To shrink

Psikiater >                  Shrink, psychiatrist

Dasar kamu nich >    It is no surprise, it is expected of you

Ingin sekali menang/ senyuman maut> Killer instinct(in sports)/ killer smile

PD-Percaya diri >      Self-confidence

BT-Bete, butuh teman > Lonely, needing a friend

Rasain >                     Serves you right

Naksir >                      Have a crush on someone

Sampaikan salam saya pada > Give my regards to…

EGP-Emang gue pikirin > I don’t care,whatever

Apapun nanti hasilnya > Come what may

Malam Jumat >          Thursday night

Jumat malam >          Friday night

Dilarang buang sampah di sini > No littering

Dilarang berada di sana tanpa tujuan> No loitering

Dilarang parkir di sini > No parking

Lua ada acara malam ini nggak? > Are you free tonight?

Ih, ngegemesin banget sih! > Aww, so cute! (I could just eat you up!)